Today’s Quote: “If you do not wish to be prone to anger, do not feed the habit; give it nothing which may tend to its increase.” – Epictetus
Today’s Question: Why can’t you just let go of a grudge?
My Thoughts: Some people just can’t let bygones be bygones. It doesn’t matter how slight the slight, once a person have been wronged, they can never be righted as far as they are concerned. Which is sad on many counts, but especially so when you think of just how long you can hold onto a grudge, and how just holding on to those grudges does so much damage to a person. It’s pretty simple to say ‘give up your grudges.’ It’s a lot harder to actually do it.
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Sometimes it can be hard, especially if it left you in a lot of pain, physcically and emotionally, but I have learned that if I think of it as a life lesson, I usually can let go of the hurt and then eventually the grudge.
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