8 life lessons that I have personally learned over the past 7 days, for the week ending 1/9/2010:
1: I’M AN IDIOT – With a 14 year old step son, I am starting to get a serious dose of the same medicine that I was dishing out to my dad 20 years ago. And it’s a bitter medication.
2: I KNOW MORE THAN I KNOW – Even if my kid doesn’t think I know anything, I am learning day by day just how wrong he is, and just how wrong my I was about my own dad way back when. The answers to questions you don’t even know will be asked are just ready to come at the right moment.
3: EVERYONE HAS TO FACE A MOMENT OF DOUBT – Two weeks into this new year I am in a very different position than I was in this time last year. A very hard place. But I’m not the first person faced with insurmountable odds, and wouldn’t be the first person to fail or succeed in actually getting past them. Hearing some stories of some very famous people and how they had to overcome so times of trouble is helping.
4: MANY OF THOSE PEOPLE DO FIND A WAY THROUGH . . . BUT NOT ALL – And in some of those stories, there were a few failures that didn’t quite make it to a great finish. That is a little troubling, knowing that I might not actually make it. But I can’t give up. I am far from finished.
5: THERE ARE NOT ENOUGH HOURS IN THE DAY – I know that last week I was talking about having enough time to get done what you deem important to get done, and if watching 3 hours of prime time television is more important than reading, you always find time for television and never find time for reading. Well, I don’t have enough time for reading. Or television. Or writing. There is just not enough waking, conscience, coherent, and creative time in the day to get everything done. That means a lot of sacrifices that I am not too thrilled about.
6: “2010 IS THE YEAR” IS OFF TO A GREAT START – That’s the goals program I have created to help people get a handle on where they are right now, and how to get to where they want to be. Check it out by following this link: http://parkedplaces.com/youalreadyhavetheanswers/2010istheyear.pdf
7: YOU MIGHT NEED SOME HELP – If a little more guidance is what you need to get you 2010 in gear, I’m offering up the services of three of my personal coaches. Each has their own perspective on things, so at least one of them have to fit what you’re looking for. Check the websites and teaching of JB Glossenger at http://morningcoach.com, Scott Smith at http://motivationtomove.com, and/or Devlyn Steele at http://toolstolife.com.
8: THIS WAS THE HARDEST LIST TO PUT OUT TO DATE – Because I made the time and put forth the effort to do it when it was the very last thing I wanted to have to do today. But I came up with this concept, figure it would do some good, so I had to man up and get it done. And it is now done.